I’m In The business of putting myself out of business

It might sound counterintuitive, but my ultimate goal as a therapist and coach is to work myself out of a job. I’m not here to create dependency or to keep you coming back week after week without making meaningful progress. Instead, I’m here to empower you to build the tools, confidence, and resilience you need to navigate life on your own terms.

Therapy:

In therapy, my role is to help you heal, process, and grow. This often means diving into past wounds, unpacking patterns, and creating a foundation of self-awareness. But therapy isn’t about keeping you in the chair forever. It’s about helping you move forward at a pace that feels right for you.

By the time we’re done working together, my hope is that you feel equipped to handle life’s challenges—to trust yourself, set boundaries, and process emotions without feeling overwhelmed. When you’re ready, you’ll know, and that decision will always be yours.

Coaching: Moving You Toward Action

My job as a coach is to help you identify obstacles, create strategies, and take aligned steps toward your vision. Just like in therapy, the goal isn’t to keep you reliant on me. The goal is to help you gain clarity, build confidence, and develop the skills to keep making progress long after our work together ends. And until you feel ready to move forward on your own, I’ll be here.

Why This Matters

There’s a fine line between support and dependency, and I’m deeply committed to staying on the right side of it. When you work with me, my goal is to help you uncover your own power, not to be the source of it. I want you to leave our time together knowing that you are capable, resilient, and more than equipped to handle what comes next.

Putting Myself Out of Business Is the Goal

Success for me isn’t measured by how many clients I have or how long they stay with me. It’s measured by the transformations I get to witness and the moments when you no longer need me. Whether you’re in therapy or coaching, my job is to make myself obsolete in your journey because that means I’ve done my job well.

So, here’s to working together, building your toolbox, and eventually saying goodbye—not because you have to, but because you’re ready to take on the world without me. And when that time comes, know that the door will always be open should you ever need support again.

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